Feb 18, 2011

Fave Food.


Just sharing some picture's from the weekend. My friend had a great get together at Daba India in Tokyo. It is authentic South Indian dishes and they have great dosa's which was what my diet subsisted on while I was in India... 



This is half size Dosa with the original coconut chutney and dal curry......


This really looks mild but it is hot, hot , hot! The coconut milk makes it really creamy so it balances the hotness? of the curry... I had this with basmati rice. 


Bettering your Best.

"No person enthusiastic of his work has anything to fear from life." ~ Samuel Goldwyn

My father used to say to me his competition was himself. When in seclusion you only have yourself and your imagination. He trained in the mountains, months at a time, he said the only motivation he had was himself and his book. I don't think he ever got bored because he knew what he wanted to achieve.

When IKO Kyokushinkaikan Honbu was built in 1964, my father said something which shocked my mother. When the construction finished and all the lockers, sand bags etc were moved from the ballet studio to Honbu, everyone, including my mother was in a celebratory mood. When she dressed for the occasion and went down to greet the students, my father took one look and told my mother to change her clothes. She was shocked but he said, "Why are you dressed up? We are just beginning to get to work now!". All the students (like Terutomo Yamazaki First All Japan Champion) were stunned. But it made sense- to Sosai, it was not the end, it was just the beginning!

He loved what he did. Everything he did built momentum- to keep going. He continually bettered himself. He continually challenged his potential and I think this really humbled him. Because he was never complacent. He took steps further into where he did not know what will happen. He did not settle for mediocrity.

When everyone said he was insane to publish a book in English, or built a building instead of a dojo, or organize and sponsor a world tournament- he dedicated to each event with every might he had. And this all stemmed from his passion, his karate. No wonder he called it, "Kyoku" "Shin"- the ultimate truth. He lived by his truth and never settled for anything less than his vision.

Feb 9, 2011

Watch the Back.

"One of the things that really brings a team together is when they learn how to cover each other's weaknesses. That's when the team really grows. "

Coach from LA Lakers, US Basketball team.

Feb 6, 2011

A Great Book Story.

I was once told by a wise friend, "If someone is stepping on your toes, you better had learnt to yell."

A few years ago, there was an unauthorized book published on Sosai. I was still mourning over my mother's passing and to be quite honest, I did not think much of this writer. He was one of those gossip writer that jumped around Matsui group like a flea. He was a bad news and no serious journalist ever took him seriously. Then I found out he had the manuscript already and was in print. I contacted the publisher, who turned out to be was as vile as he was.

What Sosai created is not just a marital arts organization but he actually built a brand around himself and his karate. Which efforts are recognized all over the world today. He was a genius on how he produced them. Then comes is.... this reprehensible human being who publishes a book which denounces your worth and damages the image/reputation to make a name for himself. To top it off, Sosai is not in his physical body to defend himself. I had to something.

The book was disgusting. It was full of fabrications from the writer's  supposed "research", it was scathing. As worst was the publisher. It is one of most renowned Japanese publishing house, I was surprised they even decided to take part in it. It showed me of my father's concern with the decline of Japanese integrity.

He had outright lies in his book, his intention was to damage Sosai and the Kyokushin reputation to sell his name. The man was not just bad- he was evil. His intent was defamation. It was so far from truth, I had no idea what he was even writing about. And it only boiled down to this: money and attention. This was not the way to do it, at least not properly. I decided not to look the other way.

 Although mourning, I started researching. His reporting was reprehensible and he had to bear the consequences. I contacted Matsui san, Goda san, Royama san etc... but they did not want anything to do with this pit-viper writer! I said it is not about him,the writer,  it is about their teacher and Kyokushin! Still they said, "Oh... we don't want extra trouble." I can tell my father is rolling in his grave! Again, I had to do something. Once the book was out, people will see it as facts. That is the power and the responsibility of journalism.

 I borrowed money and sued both the writer and the publisher. For a large sum. Now, it is not very Japanese- the amount we asked for and the public apology. We demanded to have one full page on newspaper of our choice as well as on their website for a certain period of time. It took all the way to High Court since the publisher was fighting for their reputation now. At any event I told them- especially the publisher, that I am not interested in settling without a large payment and a full apology. There 's always going to be struggling writers but the publishing house- they helped make this mess big time.

The result from the courts were 100% satisfactory. The writer closed his office and the publishing house issued public apology and the editor who was responsible was fired. What was left after the lawyer's fee, the money went to build the MOC Unity Funds, which I dedicated to Sosai and my mother, Chiyako.  It's purpose is to fund raise through activities of Kyokushin Karate or from it and sent to nine different charities world wide, in the name of my parents. We come up with different projects every year, in honor Sosai and my mother.

One of the greatest lesson I learned from my parents is to never give in something you don't believe in. They never, ever gave up and I look today what Kyokushin is doing for thousands of students who train them. Truly astonishing. I could not have some loser take advantage of Sosai and his Kyokushin. The culmination of it was a greater good that came out.

It was definitely worth the fight and I had yelled when my toes were stepped on!






Feb 3, 2011

Et tu, Brute.

Most of us have been exposed to Shakespeare. His masterpieces spends great deal of time on different characteristics of human nature. Sosai loved his writings especially King Lear and Julius Caesar. Both are extreme and kind of morbid for my taste but it isn't far-fetched. If it were, Shakespeare would be played to this day! Honestly I see similar scenario's in my father's life. Which brings me back to what I am going through. I am learning to be a bit more careful and not taking things for granted. Sharpened sense is different from paranoia and if something does not make sense to you, no matter how eloquently other's may try to convince you- go with your instincts.

The upside in all this is that there are people who genuinely wants to do their best. And do it right with integrity. That is also a real encouragement to see. This too, is something not to be taken for granted.