Hello everyone,
I just wanted to jot down couple things before going off on my day! Thank you so much for the supporting messages... it really helps me get thru tough times.
Remember you carry who you are in and from the dojo, the organization or any work place to personal space.
We had one member that was expelled last year. He continues to try and make his case. how he was done wrong. He goes on about his experience and what he did the last 30 years. yaddy yaddy ya... how he sent over 2000 emails for Honbu.
The funny thing is and that was pointed out to him was he did not pay ARF, did not have a dojo (but still called himself a Branch chief) and basically did nothing other than the "help" he was referring to. So we said EVERYONE, every branch, every dojo works hard for Honbu. It is wonderful and it is not just him.
He was expelled for a very good reason; insubordination and having sexual relationship with the students mother. Ouch right? Well it happens and if there was remorse and reflection, Honbu would have been lenient I think.
Then he says the sexual relation he has is "personal" so it was not Honbu's business. Considering his student was a child in his kids class and the father always drove the son to the Dojo, this showed us his immaturity and had no concept of consideration.
The Honbu Committee revoked his status immediately had court injunction to have the Kyokushin banner removed and MOST importantly, Sosai's name and picture and the Dojo -kun removed from the premise where it was formerly known as his "Dojo".
You can't build your reputation on what you are going to do. ha....
I just wanted to jot down couple things before going off on my day! Thank you so much for the supporting messages... it really helps me get thru tough times.
Remember you carry who you are in and from the dojo, the organization or any work place to personal space.
We had one member that was expelled last year. He continues to try and make his case. how he was done wrong. He goes on about his experience and what he did the last 30 years. yaddy yaddy ya... how he sent over 2000 emails for Honbu.
The funny thing is and that was pointed out to him was he did not pay ARF, did not have a dojo (but still called himself a Branch chief) and basically did nothing other than the "help" he was referring to. So we said EVERYONE, every branch, every dojo works hard for Honbu. It is wonderful and it is not just him.
He was expelled for a very good reason; insubordination and having sexual relationship with the students mother. Ouch right? Well it happens and if there was remorse and reflection, Honbu would have been lenient I think.
Then he says the sexual relation he has is "personal" so it was not Honbu's business. Considering his student was a child in his kids class and the father always drove the son to the Dojo, this showed us his immaturity and had no concept of consideration.
The Honbu Committee revoked his status immediately had court injunction to have the Kyokushin banner removed and MOST importantly, Sosai's name and picture and the Dojo -kun removed from the premise where it was formerly known as his "Dojo".
You can't build your reputation on what you are going to do. ha....
